So I let our lack of chemistry take over and the relationship fizzled on its own.Your first instinct is almost always the right instinct. If you feel bored, uncomfortable, weirded out or scared for no reason, stop seeing the guy.
Emphasis on the "little." I know there's no reason for me to keep seeing him, and that forcing myself to feel a certain way won't do anybody any good.
When you're with a guy and suddenly start feeling uncomfortable for any reason. Not feeling sure if you should grab a condom or not. Wanting to buy that Forever 21 dress but hesitating because you're not totally sure for some reason.
Even if he didn't specifically tell you, "Oh, hello, I have a knife and want to use it for murdering purposes," if you have a feeling that something about him seems like he could be one of the killers on, just tell him you're really tired and need to head home. The answer to whether or not your gut is right on this one is always yes. I have a rule I stick to pretty religiously and that is: If I try something on and go, "Oh, hell yes," then I buy it. Whenever I break this rule, I always just end up with some dumb, weird shirt that fits like crap and lives on my closet floor. That your designated driver had more than one drink.
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Whether it’s a freaky dream, a bad vibe or a “knowing”, in hindsight inner vision is always 20/20. Theresa © Theresa Reed | The Tarot Lady 2013 PS I cranked out this post in record time at a workshop taught by my favorite word goddess, Alexandra Franzen.
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A lot of the time, bad vibes are just that — bad vibes — and you shouldn’t ignore them, especially when it comes to guys you’re seeing.I was a pretty (wild) young thing and a hot long haired musician always trumped my better instincts (yeah, I know….superficial Gemini, what can I say? And boy howdy, did I pay when I ignored those signs!Here are the biggie lessons I learned about relationships ‘n intuition when I was back in the dating pool many lunar cycles ago: The moral of these little stories is clear as ice: the signs are always there.Communication is a solid way to cut the negative intuitions you’re feeling. Your intuition is your guide to keep you out of harm’s way and it’s usually pretty spot on.If he’s constantly taking days in between text replies, or if he constantly bails on plans last minute and it give you bad vibes, ask him straight up what’s up. You know when you feel like you’re forgetting something and convince yourself you didn’t only to arrive at your destination to discover you’ve totally left behind what you meant to bring?