And if you don’t have any children you’re probably freaking out right now, but before you start hyperventilating, just chill out.
Here are some tips to help get you through this situation. – Because a guy with a child isn’t the same as dating a guy without one.
It can take time to develop a comfort zone, not only with a new person, but also with the kids and with the new person as a parent as well.
Dating someone with kids can be tricky, but not impossible.
You’ll have to remember that thereis a special reason the two of you are dating.
It doesn’t have to be you, him, and his child all the time.
Would you actually want to be with a man who neglects his own children? Again, if you have a jealous streak in you, lose it or get to stepping. If he wants to introduce you to his kids after the second date, say no.
Listen, if he introduces you to his child that means he’s serious about you.
This is important because you cannot separate the parent from the children. Often, the attention, time and resources that a parent devotes to his/her children can make one feel jealous or resentful. Single parents are likely to set basic boundaries with regards to their children. Sometimes when we meet the kids we want to make a good impression.So, no matter what, no matter how much your man loves you, he will put his kid first.And honey, if you’re reading this and thinking, “Well, he always puts me first over his kids,” then you better think of kicking him to the curb. They’ll always have their ex in their life – Even if he cannot stand his ex, she’s still going to be in his and your life. You’ll see photos hangings of them on his walls, he’ll be making phone calls to her—that’s normal. So, they will be in communication with each other regarding their child.You may find it hard to believe, but this guy that you are interested in, he had a life before you.A life that most likely included past relationships, one or two that may include children.