Military men seem pretty great at getting the ladies, and not just during Fleet Week in NYC, where hundreds of hot young Navy guys are greeted on the shores of N. Sorry, boys, it’s not just those things, though the uniforms and muscles do help. “Normal” guys love to write their appeal off as “the uniform,” or the fact that they’re usually in great shape.Of course, there are a few military girlfriends who give the title a bad name. They take advantage of service members and make poor choices.Having a life in addition to the one with your service member will help you remember who you are as a person.I remember mentioning this to another wife in passing, and how surprised I was that this build-up seemed harder than his first tour.I felt like I was at my wits end and worried about going into a deployment in this state.If you do, it'll drive you crazy, because both of you are out of your mind right now." That was the best advice I ever received, and truly one of the major reasons why my husband and I are still (happily) together.
Your choices are find every way possible to strengthen yourself and survive or choose a less stressful life for yourself.
This is a given in the military and other professions like medical, fire and law enforcement.
Make plans for how you will celebrate holidays without them and enjoy them. 4) If you are not supportive or interested in the military as a family life choice do not date or marry someone who loves their career in the military.
She simply smiled and said, "Let me give you a piece of advice, honey.
If you want to get married to a Marine, and stay that way, you've got to realize, you can't make any major life decisions beginning six weeks before he deploys until six weeks after he gets back.