I have identified the following rules to change the approach:1. How fun is it to hang out with someone who only puts themselves down?
If men aren’t interested in you, it probably isn’t because you aren’t a supermodel, it is probably because they can see how you feel about yourself.
Look out for boasting, unsubstantiated claims, a lack of information about themselves and flashy or grandiose plans – if it all seems too good to be true, it probably is.
The aim of a player is to win your affection, and the marker they use to judge that this is happened is often that the relationship has become sexual – they have made their conquest.
Good relationships work because you both like those special things about the other that only he or only she can offer.
Players like things about women that they all have in common. It doesn’t matter where you get a bushel of corn, a barrel of oil or a bar of gold.
They will endeavour to be in your life right away, helping with problems and offering to be there for you in all sorts of situations.
The more women a man has been with, the more difficult it may be for him to discern or care about the special differences one particular woman has to offer.
And not until he decides to grow up and stop playing childish games, he will continue to play.
There are a few telltale signs to let you know you are dealing with a player: The way you handle a player is not to hate the player, learn the game.
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Actress, comedian Kym Whitley, actor Bill Bellamy and author Neil Strauss joined the conversation.