But, of course, security cameras still often catch people doing all sorts of illegal things.These cameras reveal something we know already: People’s character is revealed by what they do when they no one’s looking. Thomas Macaulay (1800-1859) once wrote, “The measure of man’s real character is what he would do if he knew he would never be found out.” If you are a single woman and are looking for a godly man to date and possibly marry, what should you look for? If you are a man who desires to faithfully follow God, what aspects of your character should you work to develop?No matter his cultural background, his level of education or his depth of experiences—if he follows Jesus Christ first, you will recognize it. This may include his father or grandfather, a mentor at school or work or even his buddies.Any of those influences can be positive or negative.You could be engaged and SO close to the wedding day-- HOW do you abstain?!?
I dated as a Christian but was STILL all up in the world & I courted God's way-- where my husband and I didn't kiss until our wedding day.
As you are getting to know someone who would be a potential spouse, consider if the person is honest and trustworthy.
Does he have a track record of following through on his word?
BUT deep down, YOU want your relationship to glorify God. God may be trying to speak to you concerning that guy.. If God is cool with you staying with him (and BOTH sides have repented and made a decision to honor God) then start this journey on the same PAGE (amos 3:3). STOP cuddling, rubbing, putting yourself in 1:1 situations and if it's late, you shouldn't be at each others house! (Proverbs ) STOP watching stupid reality TV songs, going to clubs, love-sex songs, pornography or blogs.
YOU want to make things work but you just cannot figure out how to turn off that switch. Do you think that God doesn't look at ya'll playing around with the SAME destest?! SO stop being all sexual as you sing & dance a beyonce song to your guy.