It doesn’t exactly hurt to remind her of the bad times he’s caused, but don’t tear your hair out expecting her to respond to facts alone.
His negative behavior may be at some level the exact thing that attracts her to him.
If your friend is dating a chump, you’ve probably left enough obvious hints that her boyfriend is a good-for-nothing.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. My sister (20 years old) is dating a complete loser.
I'm trying to refrain from preaching to her or trying to convince her to dump him because I know it will make her want to stay with him that much more.
If you’re dating a ‘loser’, you may recognize in your partner some of these characteristics described by Consulting Clinical Psychologist Joseph M. This article continues with a note on dangerous versions of the ‘loser’ and offers guidelines for detachment.
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