I have some super skinny friends who are considered really hot and always get hit on and then there are celebs who are super skinny, like Olivia Wilde and Megan Fox (she supposedly has a 23 inch waist!), that are considered these huge sex symbols and are number 1 on every ‘hot list.’ Oh boy… I knew that sooner or later this question would come up and I would have to answer it.In Op's world, broke average guys like himself get to be superficial while extremely attractive men are expected to rise above that sort of thing.However, were the hotties to look a little deeper at men like Op, all they'd see is a superficial person interested only in their looks. This reminds of some gay magazine I read years ago (pre-internet) where I read a letter that some small town or farm gay guy wrote to the editor asking where he could meet guys like Mr. The editor wrote, very nicely almost as if writing to a child, that he essentially needed to get the hell out of Bumfuck and move to a large city where the dating pool would be more plentiful.“Lately, in order to want to sleep with someone, I actually have to them as a person.” He said this as if it were a mind-blowing revelation.I told him that, at 31, the realization was probably a bit overdue, but I knew what he meant: As one gets older, it becomes harder and harder to be attracted to someone simply because of the way they look.Having lower body fat brings out all the masculine features of the face.
If you’ve ever had someone look at you during sex with this completely euphoric expression, like, “I ,” you understand that “dating down” in terms of attractiveness can be a confidence boost in its own right.And, like everything else, I will answer it honestly without sugar-coating.To start things off, I can tell you that one of the things that guys will talk about is who we think is a hot chick.Is it because, with age, we care more about a relationship’s potential longevity, rather than just instant sexual gratification?Or perhaps we become more acutely aware of the impermanence of beauty after experiencing our own signs of aging?