However, our fine brothers have started looking into other ethnicities and are beginning to date interracially (putting their chocolate cookie in sugar cookies, raisin cookies, and Macadamia cookies) and it’s okay. There are lots of handsome men out there, in different continents and countries so I’m here to give advice on some things a Non African woman should have in the back of her head when dating an African man. A Nigerian man loves with his belly amongst other things. Oyinbo/Akata: Cook your favorite meals, make sure it’s good, Nigerian men are spoiled by the sweet taste of their mother’s cooking so you are going to have to put that work in the kitchen. God has blessed and created the most beautiful, handsome, manly men in Africa. : Even if you don’t like to cook, try and cook a few meals a week. A Nigerian man wants to be able to know that you can properly feed him.For some, the idea of dating an African man conjures up a lot of myths and fears like the image of the over-controlling man.
I bet everyone wants to know what I believe a Non-African woman should know before dating an African men. Okay before I begin let me just say: Am I saying all African men are the same? Here’s a list of what you can expect so you are well prepared: 1) Henny, dark liquor, Stout, or Heinkein or other heavy beers are their drink of choice. Oyinbo/Akata: Have at least a case in your house, if your man drinks alcohol and comes to your place and sees you have some, he will be a happy man. No African man is always going to want to do take out or go to a restaurant all the time. 3) Meat and fish are your best friend: I don’t care, I have yet to meet an African man that doesn’t like meat or fish.
If you really feel for the guy and you know you can afford the money, help him with half of it. Redgal please in your own best interest, I advise you abrupt every communication you have with him and move on. greyboy5000:really why don't you say what is on your mind The lady ask for your advice And you took the opportunity to diss Nigeria over and over again Don't you think your advice one to many Why don't you give others chance to advice her She believes that she knows everything about Nigeria and that's why she thinks the guy is fake while hers is geniue.
That is, after he's sent you his voters ID/National ID card (these can't be forged, unlike drivers licence) his Facebook ID. Redgal:@Kosi Gee That's why he wants me to visit him in Nigeria. That's her mentality till her man then divorces her after marriage, then she would understand that her knowledge about Nigeria weren't okay enough. Just make sure he ain't got a traditional wife lol so why don't you pay for your visa and your ticket and go.. Cause they got generator and its cheeper for u to buy gas than to stay in a hotel... I just happen to meet someone that from friendship we developed a fire.
I know he loves me, he makes that clear in the way he treats my children and I. He knew when he approached me that I was 9 years older and he didn't go running...by the way, if we were to get married, both of us would be taking care of the expense.
He works two jobs....that's to the person who mentioned I would pay for it.